This is how I start a new character: Put 2 points in shields and 2 points in pathfinding and 1-2 points in training. This allows you to block arrows, avoid bandits and level up the farmers. Set the difficulty on lance to manual (hard) and equip him with 2 shields, a sword and a spear/lance.
By Joshua Leeds. Published Nov 7, 2022. Renown is a measurement of your legend in Calradia, as it helps you level up your clan. Here's how you can earn these in Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord.
As for getting renown, I'm by no means an expert, but tournament wins is a good way. Fighting enemies that are stronger than you is another good way (early on, I can normally get decent renown for the Sea Raiders). Later, if you join a faction, joining battles against other lords is a good way.
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